No matter if you’re in a serious long-term relationship, or married, it’s unlikely that you’ll never have arguments or experience a rift between the two of you every now and again. It’s import…Read More
Collaborative Divorce Assistance
Divorce doesn’t have to end badly and leave a permanent stain on the quality of your life. An amicable divorce is better for everyone involved, and Wendy Iglehart provides you with collaboration services for a smooth process through a rough part of your life and help manage relationship issues to help strengthen your family.
There is hope after a divorce. The way that your divorce is managed contributes to what your post-divorce life could be. The traditional litigated divorce dehumanizes you and keeps you in an adversarial position, not allowing for proper insight on relationship advice. Whereas, the collaborative divorce empowers you during what could be a challenging and painful time so the process of your divorce can be viewed in a more positive and personally fulfilling manner.
With a team of supportive professionals (collaborative lawyers, divorce coaches, child specialists, and financial specialists) you and your spouse/partner pledge not to go to court, practice an honest, open exchange of information, and determine joint solutions that take into account both of your needs and your child (children) needs. As your divorce coach, I assist you through the collaborative process, provide you support through your emotional turmoil, and help you define your present and future goals. Divorce is a difficult part of your life, and Wendy Iglehart is here to help empower you and your family relationship through this transition.
For many, a collaborative approach to divorce may not be common knowledge for your relationship issues. Listed below are some of the roles, benefits, and helpful tips when it comes to having a collaborative divorce coach.
Role of a Collaborative Divorce Coach:
▪ Sort out difficult feelings and listen to your story
▪ Anticipate emotionally charged issues
▪ Manage emotions during interest-based negotiations
▪ Identify strengths and weaknesses
▪ Teach how to interact and communicate in a respectful manner
▪ Help develop effective co-parenting skills
▪ Increase effective communication and conflict resolution skills
Benefits of Collaborative Divorce Process:
▪ You and your spouse control the process
▪ You and your spouse create the timetable
▪ Mutual respect and openness discourages an adversarial system
▪ No court involvement so dispute does not become a matter of public record
▪ Team of professionals assist in transition of new family structure
▪ Joint access to specialist for guidance
▪ Team remains accessible post-divorce
Helpful tips to have a conversation about collaborative:
▪ Be clear about why you want collaborative
▪ Anticipate your spouse/partner becoming defensive about your research
▪ Be willing to listen
▪ Avoid talk about a settlement proposal, stick with the process choices
▪ Meet in a public place with separate transportation
▪ Consider recruiting a neutral friend, counselor, rabbi, minister, or the like